Showing posts with label The Parent File. Show all posts
Showing posts with label The Parent File. Show all posts

Puddles

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As a mother and a teacher, I try to remind myself to look at the world through the eyes of a child. While it’s easy to forget the simple things in the midst of our busy lives, it certainly can put things in perspective. Yesterday, as we pulled into the driveway after a big rainstorm had hit, my daughter asked if she could play in the puddles. I told her she could as soon as it stopped raining. A little while later, with a big smile on her face, she put on her rain boots and coat and told me she was ready.

A few things I thought of as I watched her play . . .

1. Don’t forget the silver linings. As we complain about the rainstorms of life, let’s not forget the opportunities that might arise from them.

2. Make new friends. A squiggly worm caused my daughter to ask, “What’s that?” When I told her, she replied, “He’s my friend.”

3. It’s okay to change your mind. After seeing the rest of the worms, most of whom hadn’t made it through the rain, my daughter said, “I don’t like worms. They’re scary.” I had to laugh, but I do agree with her.

4. Share the joy with others. Her brother had originally opted out of the puddle adventure, but when he saw how much fun she was having, he poked his head out the door and asked if he could play too. She welcomed him into the puddles with open arms and was sure to point out the icky worms all over the place.

Now, all of that being said, I’m ready to learn some lessons from sunshine and spring weather. ;)

New Book Release- Seeing Cinderella

 

I had the opportunity in the fall to read my first ARC- an Advanced Reader Copy- of Seeing Cinderella by debut author Jenny Lundquist.  It was a fun read and I loved getting to know the characters.  I’m including a synopsis below, but all you need to do is take a look at the cover and know that it’s a book about middle school and magic glasses.  Smile  Can you imagine what you could do with those?!  While there is a lighthearted tone to the book, Ms. Lundquist also deals with real issues like friendship and secrets.

It’s available now on Amazon and Barnes and Noble.  You can even get it on your Kindle or Nook!

So, if you have a young reader in your life, or if you enjoy a good read yourself, this is a good one to check out.

Congratulations to Jenny Lundquist!

 

From her website . . .

Seeing Cinderella: Calliope Meadow Anderson is terrified to start seventh grade. Not that the summer has been so great— her overachieving best friend, Ellen, is slipping away, her parents’ marriage is falling apart, and to top it all off, she has to get glasses the day before school starts. Life isn’t going too smoothly.

But things get unexpectedly weird when Callie meets her wacky optometrist and receives a pair of glasses so ugly they make braces and headgear look cute. But pretty soon, Callie makes a freaky discovery. Her glasses have magic powers: they can read people’s thoughts (and she’s pretty sure they repel boys, too).

Callie uses her new glasses to navigate middle school life and learns things she never knew about the people around her. That overachieving Ellen isn’t so super confident, after all. That neither of her parents are who she thought they were. That it’s a good idea to make sure your crush Knows Your Name before you spy on his thoughts. But when the glasses show Callie that Ana Garcia—a new student from Mexico and Callie’s Spanish tutor—has become a real-life Cinderella in her uncle’s house, she has to make a choice. Will she stay in the shadows and hide behind her magic glasses, or step out of the background and stand up for her friend?

A Bit Out of Order

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We've all watched reruns, in whatever order they happen to be on TV.  If you watched all seven seasons of Melrose Place (though few of us will admit it), you can probably jump right in and figure out what's going on in any given episode.  Whether you were a Seinfeld fan from the beginning, or you simply know the characters, any episode from one to 180 will have you laughing.  Does that same ring true for a movie series?

When it came to deciding what order of Star Wars we'd show our son, we were divided between the way we watched it (4,5,6 then 1,2,3) and chronological order (1-6). 

Turns out it wouldn't be either.

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When our son started getting interested in Star Wars, we weren't sure he was ready for the movies.  So instead, he asked Daddy to tell him the whole story and then proceeded to ask A LOT of questions.  Why did Anakin become bad?  Who trained Obi-Wan? What is the Dark Side?

As fate would have it, Episode One, The Phantom Menace, recently came out in the theaters in 3-D, so we took him to see it, twice!  He was ready to watch the next one, but I wasn't convinced that two and three were appropriate just yet.  So he watched Episode Four, A New Hope.  (Movie one for us old timers out there.)  Number five seemed like a bit too much, so we let him move on to Episode Six, my favorite, Return of the Jedi.

For those keeping track, that crazy order is Episode One, Four, and Six.  Hmm, that wasn't in the original plan.  But, it turns out he didn't care much, because he knew the story, the characters, the beginning and the end.  He jumped right in and it worked out fine. 

How would you show a youngster the Star Wars movies?

It Simply Makes You Laugh

I’ve heard plenty of jokes in my life, as we all have.  Some were so funny I couldn’t stop laughing, while others made me scrunch up my nose as I tried to figure out if I missed something.

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I’ve also had the opportunity to see some amazing comedians in person- Bill Cosby, Jerry Seinfeld, Jay Leno, Howie Mandel, and seriously one of the most naturally funny people ever, Jon Stewart . . . funny, funny, funny. 

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I’m sure there is somewhat of a formula for jokes, but it still doesn’t mean it will work on everyone.  I probably wouldn’t find a joke about vegetarians very funny and my husband gives me a look every time I laugh at Canadian jokes.  Which, by the way, I’m allowed to do since I’m married to a Canadian. 

But over the last few years, I’ve heard some of the best jokes from some new comedians- my kids.  My son’s nonsense jokes make him throw his head back and snort, which only makes me laugh even more.  And his cleverness shines as he makes up brand new ones.  My daughter recently ventured into the land of telling jokes with this one, “Knock, knock.  Pooh nah?”  To which she and her brother laugh and laugh and laugh.  And one of my favorites?  When she kisses my head, says “ear,” and then falls back laughing as I shout, “That’s not my ear!”

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So what makes a joke funny?  It simply has to make you laugh.  Smile

The Simple Things

It really is the simple things in life that are so special. 

After breakfast this morning, my little sweetheart decided to balance her sippy cup on her head.  She had the biggest smile on her face when she accomplished this amazing feat. 

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Sometimes, we have to take a step back and remember that our successes don’t always have to be big ones.  Me, hey, I’m just happy when I get through a whole day without spilling anything or without smashing a leg into something that will surely leave a bruise.

Have a great day.

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If You Love Photography, You HAVE to See This!

I buy cameras like other people buy cereal.  Okay, maybe that’s an exaggeration, but I absolutely love photography.  I kid you not, I have never seen a camera like this.  And I have to wait for it to come out?!  Keep reading to see why it’s so amazing.

Lytro will be introducing a light field camera that allows you to change the focus after you’ve taken the picture.  Click anywhere in the photos to change the focus and visit their picture gallery to play some more! 

Happy Father’s Day!

My dad always told me and my brother, “You don’t love anything like you love your kids.”  It wasn’t until I became a parent that I truly understood those words. 

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So here’s to my dad, one of the most wonderful people I know. 

A few of my favorite things about my dad-

He was involved in every aspect of parenting. You don't always see that.

He taught me what it means to be accepting of others and that having an education also means learning about the world around you.

Watching him with friends he has known his whole life, made me realize the importance of strong friendships and being a good friend.

He got me started on my love of travel and went along with it as I dragged him around the globe in my teenage years.

London as an 18th birthday present, yeah, that was my favorite. (Alright, I saved up for the ticket and begged and begged, but still.)

And as an adult, I love watching him be a grandfather to my kids. :)

I have realized something else along the way- When I hug my kids before bedtime and start to put them down, they just squeeze harder.  Because the love children have for their parents is a pretty special thing too.

**And also a very Happy Father’s Day to my husband, and amazing father too!